It was for stalking, and one other felony that escapes my memory at the moment. I look at all the posts recently about supporting his wife, who was "fired for being a witch," and reflect upon what REALLY transpired. Honestly, she was a school bus driver who espoused sucking blood. I would NOT trust her around my children. And now, this fellow who "dares to be different" turns out to be a common felon.

I believe that the pagan community really needs to step back and take a good re-look at the idea of "unconditional, universal acceptance and tolerance." Too often, it means that people ignore their basic gut instincts because they don't want to appear intolerant. That's not only against common sense, it's unnatural. Nature gave us intuition for a reason, and people who proclaim to study and respect nature need to embrace that. Psychos need to be shunned, period. There's no "we have to tolerate all beliefs" about it.

Tags: beliefs, bias, community, intuition, nature, pagan, pc, tolerance

MySpace is yielding some good chatter. My response on another forum:
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I've found that an indulgent smile takes the steam right out of most folks who try to get a rise out of you. If you become reactionary, they go right for that weak spot, because if they hadn't hit a nerve, you wouldn't be reacting emotionally.

It can be frustrating, the little encounters that pop up. And we can let them build until it seems the whole world is judging us. But we must remember that these are personal issues of individuals, not a problem or agenda of the majority. If your faith truly IS a solid foundation for you, then the opinions of others are simply that - opinions. No threat.

Even family comes into this equation. It's more bothersome because we want to get along with our relatives, but if it's not possible, don't beat yourself up over it. They are who they are. Continue to be a role model as a stable, spiritual individual and they will decide how to take that, or not.

I find that firmness works best. Getting prayer Emails? Block 'em. Someone won't talk to you? Sorry, I'll miss you, but breaking off a connection is their problem; don't make it yours.

I could say more; I'm sure you'll find out in time that I usually do. ;) But I think my point's been made here.

Tags: beliefs, bias, conflict, pagan, persecution